make a wish.


"If a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen, no matter what. So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn’t give a shit, he genuinely doesn’t give a shit. No exceptions."  - He’s Just Not That Into You



exactly this time next week, my plane will be leaving the gate. ah shiettt.


i guess that’s the thing though.  

we as humans have one huge fault and that is the fact that we are unable to ever truly understand another person’s pain. it is the unfortunate reality of qualia. you don’t know that this pain that i feel is the same as the pain that you feel. as in, i could have a higher tolerance for pain and might be a stronger person, yet i would never know it because i don’t know the pain that you are feeling and how it compares to the pain i am feeling. i mean this both mentally and physically, i suppose, with regards to the post that i posted just before this one. it is just unfortunate that we are never able to understand how we are fairing in comparison to others. we will never know our own true strengths, or our weaknesses either. comparisons between people are moot and debatable, because we are not able to really experience one another. but we try, and i guess that’s something. it’s the root of empathy. the word empathy comes from the greek, and i’m pretty sure the literal translation is to “feel into”. attempting to empathize with another person is trying to feel what they feel and to reach a level of compassion and understanding not prevalent with sympathy. we figuratively immerse ourselves into the other person’s situation in order to experience their pain, so that ultimately, we will be able to understand their reaction and help them.


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Someone explain the physical pain in your chest when you’re feeling heartbroken. 

How do I feel better?


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"

Of all the infinite concepts in the world, Time is the most cruel as it ends the beautiful, tests the unwavering, and separates hearts that want nothing more than to have another hour, another minute, another second, another smile, another hug, another kiss.

The closer you are to the end, the faster it gets.

"  - Tricia Sarmiento



Can’t sleep for the life of me. It’s too damn hot! the middle of the effing night and it’s still 85 degrees. And my father, frugal Indian that he is, refuses to turn on the air conditioning. 

Someone share with me the secret to falling asleep.

Or talk to me. Or something.


onetrueslayer said:
STACEY I LOVE YOU!

I LOVE YOU TOO NICOLE!

i miss you. i’ve been watching you and veronica on my dash all night.


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